The process of achieving anything significant can be daunting. Especially when we have a blur view of where we want to go.
We might want to achieve so much in our life that we loose track and we then decide to abandon our dreams all together.
It happens to all.
The good news is that we can improve how we can achieve our dreams.
Firstly, find out your WHAT; set yourself the goal.
Choose what you really feel you want to achieve with your life.
It doesn't always need to be materialistic: I want to have a house with a garden, I want to have a nice holiday.
We can choose to become a better friend, a better partner, a better parent.
Secondly, find our your HOW; set steps to achieve the goal.
Start with something that moves you one step ahead towards your destination.
i.e I want to change job:
> Update my CV
> Contact a Head Hunter
> Check with my contacts for new roles opening
> Preparing for interviews with a coach
Thirdly, find out your WHY: the purpose, the beliefs and the values.
This is the powerful bit.
This is what keeps you connected to who you really are and believe.
This is what will keep the momentum going.
i.e Going for a job because pays very well but it is not aligned with your purpose, beliefs and values, will sooner or later kick you in your back side (i.e you might have to dedicate more time to work rather than your family, friends; you work place become a toxic place and your health is at risk).
It is important to make decisions by evaluating as much as possible what it is on the table.
And it is important to use all senses when making decisions.
That's where the magic happens.
Know your WHAT.
Know your HOW.
And NEVER forget to know your WHY.
Let's go.
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